Church, the Poor, and Bigger Buildings
So I live in a small, conserative town. It has lots of nice, conservative churches. And this town tends to be isolated from the financial, social, and racial problems that plague bigger cities. But I want to ask some hard questions anyway.
What should a church do when it has, let say… an extra $10,000, a need for more nursery space, and a desire for greater visibility? Build or move into a bigger building, right? That’s easy enough.
Additional question: can you think of any church that can afford a building that does not own one?
Two competing values are at play: caring for our church members (who have kids that should be in a better nursery than what we’re providing) and caring for the poor. We have extra money - how ought we spend it?
Caring For Our Church Members
Care for our church members right now means having enough nursery space for the babies and children of familes that want to attend our church. It would be very difficult for any family with kids to make Trinity its home if we didn’t provide some kind of services for their kids - and I fully understand why some families would never bother to come in the first place.
If we can’t also offer good programs for their babies, kids, or teens, then they’ll probably be better off attending a place that can. (Anyone want to venture a guess as to why we have almost no teenagers in our church?)
I agree that having space for age-separate daycare is important. I agree that well-equipped teachers to instruct them are important. And I also feel that having nicer rooms, separated from the main service, better heating, and better access to bathrooms would be a welcome improvement.
And how nice to not have to set up and take down chairs every week! And maybe even our sound equipment will already be in place - think of all the work and time that would save!
Wow - having all that stuff would be so nice…
An Alternative
But none of those things are completely out of reach at our current building, are they? It would take a lot more work, but I know of another church - Mosaic - that has amazingly dedicated teams of people to do cleanup and setup so that they can hold their services in Club Mayan on Sunday mornings. (They’re also in the process of buying property in the Glendale area, I believe; mostly for family reasons: they want space for families and kids to be able to play. Can’t do that so much in the middle of downtown L.A.)
So we’re not warm enough? We can buy more space heaters. Not pretty enough? We can buy nicer furnishings or create our own artwork to transform the place - and for a lot less than $10,000 a year.
So we have to move it in and set it up every Sunday - so what? What’s a little bit of extra labor compared to giving an extra, say… $7,000 away? I know the poor, or missionaries, or other disaster victimes (hurricanes, earthquakes, you know: usual acts of God) would feel the need for what that money can provide a lot more than we feel the desire for a nicer space.
The Air We Breathe
A post on churches and money caught my attention a little while ago. I’ve never fully replied with my thoughts on his post because I’ve been busy changing jobs…
But a lot of what he wrote rung true of my experience in InterVarsity - IV, church, and missions are all run the way they are in this country because we have a lot of disposable income. The models - and some of the values behind them - that the evangelical American church has in these areas about “how things ought to be done” do not translate to other cultures. (And I could write a whole other post about this one sometime.)
The evangelical church breathes the cultural air of “money will make me happy” just as deeply as the rest of the world around it. But what ought to be poison (Matt. 6:24) to our system is hardly given a second thought, it seems.
Hypothetical Challenges
What if we lived in earlier times and the most we could ever hope for was a one-room church building with wooden pews? What if we wanted families with children to come and there were no other churches for miles around - what would we do then?
What if our church’s mission statement was the same as Jesus’? To quote an article from the PCA magazine:
To Herald His ministry, Jesus read His mission from Isaiah 61, “to preach the good news to the poor… proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to release the oppressed” (Luke 4:18, 19).
Oh, but surely Jesus only meant the spiritually oppressed and poor, right? Right…
What if that was our church’s mission statement? (Thought: what if it was my own?)
One final hypothetical: what if our church had nothing but bare wooden floors, 100 degree heat in the summers and a 40 degree chill in the winters? Would people still come? Would they be drawn by the message of the gospel?
What really brings people to our church?
My Choices
I would opt for one of two plans -
- Let’s stay where we’re at since there is no space advantage to moving to a new location. Everything else we want could be achieved if a sufficient number of church members agreed to help setup, decorate, and pre-heat rooms. I’ll put myself on the line and volunteer to do this at least once a week for a year.
Let’s move to the new building but agree to a “matching fund” type of deal: everything that we pay in rent over our current location is also given away over the course of the year to help those in need. Church members should have a voice in determining and learning who “those in need” are.
I’ll put my money on the line and do the same for the next car I buy: whatever it costs I will also give away. So it takes me twice as long to save up for a car? So what? If you have choices you are a person of wealth. I have choices.
But…
I know: we live in suburbia. “There are no poor peple here.”
Living in suburbia (which was created to escape the poor, btw) does not exclude us from responsibility to the commands of God.
I hope the church makes a decision in line with the values in chooses to follow. That, at least, is integrity.
For me, I will continue to struggle to live out a love for the poor in my own life. I won’t pretend to be an expert at it. But the gospel… the gospel is about loving the poor and loving our neighbor. Isn’t it?
You present an interesting dilemma. We know we are commanded to care for the poor… and we know we have been blessed and that God wants us to enjoy the fruits of our labor that have been given to us by Him. Is tithing enough? Is tithing plus extra and volunteering enough? Perhaps the attitude in the heart is what really counts.
As far as the ‘poor’ here in the US… their biggest problem is obesity!!! What does that say when your country’s poor families have more cellphones than your family?! I send my extra dunkets overseas to ministries serving the actual poor and needy… like in Armenia, Siberia, Indonesia, refugees in Austria… and one very adorable little girl in Bolivia.
I’ll agree that “the attitude in the heart is what really counts.” It always has been what is most important, and we have the same problem the church has faced for ages: actions that reflect the state of the heart do not prove one’s heart - but they are indicative of it.
A lot of my friends not of the Christian faith are better at loving the poor and taking action to help them then a lot of the religious I know. Odd? Not really.
I disagree that the poor in America are too rich to need help. (Which is what I gather you are implying by suggesting they are overweight and own too many cell phones.) Trying to address the issue of poverty would take words from people far more expert in the field than I (the author Bakke might be a good place to start), but I do like you response: find some place (overseas, wherever) that you feel you can give your money too.
Thanks for reading.
Great questions. I get frustrated with feeling that it would take convincing everybody that either plan is better than just continuing in the pursuit of another building without considering the poor. I feel overwhelmed by thinking that everyone has to have the “convicting experience” in order to get on board. We don’t have that time, the issue is more urgent. I guess that’s where prayer comes in because my impatience, despite God’s urgency, doesn’t help. It’s hard to stay in tension.
My husbandand I have a building and now need the material to set up in side.Trying to find some one who have anything of use for our church to donate our chucrh.
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